Make Time For What Matters, Eliminate The Rest

You’ll often hear someone say, “make time for what matters.” But how many of us actually DO it?

Instead of making time for things that matter, we spend our lives on Facebook, watching TV and doing other things that generally don’t provide any benefit to our life. Then, we have the audacity to tell others that we’re “just too busy” to do XYZ.

The fact is that most people AREN’T busy. I know that you’re sitting there thinking, “But you don’t know me. I’m really REALLY busy.” I’m sure you are. You’re just sooo busy, aren’t you?

Every person has 24 hours each day to do what they need to do. 24 hours. You’re telling me that you are busy for 24 hours straight? Sure, you need time to sleep. So, we’ll take out 8 hours. 16 hours. If you are constantly busy for 16 hours a day, something is VERY wrong.

The fact is that, while many people claim to be “busy,” few are productive. They do Task A just for the sake of doing Task A, not because Task A is actually important.

Take a minute to think about everything you’ve done today. Write it down. I’m serious. Stop reading this right now and write down every single thing you did today. Meals, makeup, showering, pooping, working out, everything.

Now, how many of those were truly important? How many got you closer to your goals?

My guess is that there are only 2-3 items on your list that were ACTUALLY important. The rest, frankly, is bullshit. You don’t need it.

What’s the best way to get ahead? Eliminate, eliminate, eliminate!

I’m not suggesting you move into the hills and become a Buddhist monk. (Although, that doesn’t sound all that bad at the moment.) What I am suggesting is that you seek ways to do less, to own less.

People complain all the time that they are “too busy” or their life is “complicated.” So, simplify it! Stop whining about it and start eliminating your problems! It’s really not that difficult.

How To 80/20 Your Reputation

Before you read this post, you need to understand the Pareto Principle. If you’re already familiar with the Pareto Principle, enjoy this post!

If you had to describe yourself using only three words, what would they be? If you are at all like me, you might find this question somewhat depressing. Why? Because a lot of times, the words that we use to describe ourselves are not always the most positive.

I, for one, have a tendency to be lazy, stubborn and opinionated. In other words, I think I am right all the time but don’t have the energy to prove it. Not good. The problem is that there are lots of other people who act the same way. And if we’re not careful, there is a big danger in earning a reputation as a lazy, stubborn, opinionated waste of space. Really not good.

So, what can we do to change this? What can we do to convert our reputation from negative to positive? Take action on the things that matter.

Ask yourself these questions:

1. What three words best describe you?

2. In one year, what three words would you like to best describe you?

3. What actions can you take right now to make this happen?

How To Make Progress On A New Idea

Saras Sarasvathy is my hero. Over the years, she has studied scores of expert entrepreneurs to find out what makes them tick. This has led her to create the website Effectuation.org and write several books on the entrepreneurial process. What makes her work so wonderful? Simplicity.

Dr. Sarasvathy doesn’t overcomplicate things. She teaches the principles of entrepreneurship in a simple, but doesn’t bog down the reader with excessive details. She has a simple motto that she teaches her students: Do the doable, then push it.

But what does this mean?

When most people think of entrepreneurs, they think of Steve Jobs of Apple, Jeff Bezos of Amazon and Bill Gates of Microsoft. These companies are MONSTERS! They employ thousands of employees and provide products and services to millions! Often, this overwhelms the beginning entrepreneur and makes them feel so insignificant that they never pursue their dreams. This is where Dr. Sarasvathy comes in.

Do the doable, then push it.

No one becomes a giant over night. Apple started in a garage. Dell computers started in a DORM ROOM! Starbucks started as one, small coffee shop. So, what made these companies so great? The founders never stopped pushing.

They all started with an idea–a simple idea. Build a computer. Create an online store. Nothing fancy. Just an idea. Then, they pushed it. When that was successful, they pushed it some more. In fact, none of them EVER stop pushing, and THAT is what has made them successful. Their efforts are relentless.

Now, let’s be realistic. Most of us will never create something that changes the world. But we CAN create something that changes OUR world. And in the end, OUR world–our personal world–is the only one that matters.

What Is Your Mission Statement?

Mission statements. Companies have them. Volunteer organizations have them. It seems like everything under the Sun has a damn mission statement. Except people.

So, here is your challenge today: Come up with a personal mission statement. Just a simple sentence that summarizes your goals for the year–or even the next few months.

Once you’ve figured it out, share it with everyone in the comments below.

The Prison Of Indecision

You’ve done it! You’ve made a decision. You feel confident that you made a great decision. But then, you come down with a serious case of the “What Ifs.”

What if you made the wrong decision? What if you could have made a BETTER one? What if there is something that you’re forgetting? What if you had taken more time to decide?

I don’t know much, but I know this: Everyone questions their decisions. There is not one person in the history of the world that hasn’t second-guessed themselves. You are FAR from alone. Nonetheless, the “What Ifs” often get the best of us and make us miserable. Uncertainty is not a good feeling, especially when you have to wait for the results.

If you make a decision to touch a hot stove, you find out very quickly that it was a terrible idea. But what about something more significant? Some things take months. Some things take years! What if the result isn’t what you hoped? What if you’re disappointed with your decision?

Get over it!

We make thousands of decisions throughout our lives–some significant, some insignificant. Sometimes we’ll be right, sometimes we’ll be wrong. Either way, decisions have to be made.

“But I’m just an indecisive person!”

Get ready for a dose of honesty. Here it comes . . .

Indecision is a choice.

That’s right. You are indecisive because you WANT to be. A long time ago, you had to make a decision: (1) be decisive; or (2) be indecisive.

Indecision is a prison. By being indecisive, you remove from yourself the freedom of choice and confine yourself to a life of misery and resentment. By contrast, being decisive releases you from the shackles that you have so ruthlessly placed on yourself and allows live a life of freedom!

Now, get out there and make a decision! To Hell with the consequences!